Tuesday, 24 August 2021
Saturday, 21 August 2021
During next two years, we grew and grew longer, tougher and understandable as well. It was the time when we had started thinking about our future plans. Though, it was too early for the school boys like us worrying about the future life, it still became a matter of highest priority and importance for both of us. One day when I was with him at the hostel, I told Harbans that after leaving the school, I want to join the armed forces as an officer.
In the year 1961, after completion of matriculation, we went our own ways and never met again until 20th July, 1974 at 9.30 AM, at a Military Headquarters in Pathankot! Before matriculation result, I was sent to my Chacha Udham Chandji at Jammu, so that instead of loitering aimlessly in the village, I might be put into a temporary job where at least I could be able to earn some money in order to meet my own expenses. After having worked in a factory in Jammu for a period of three months, I was again in Village Ladori for a while, for preparation to leave for Bombay to my maternal uncle who was then serving in Mahindra and Mahindra Ltd. as a Purchase Officer. My uncle had promised my Dadi that he would take me to Bombay and help provide a temporary apprentice job in any factory there.
One day, it so happened that in Hattian, I met one of the old classmates Rameshwar Singh who is the relative of Harbans. I inquired from Rameshwar about the whereabouts of Harbans, who in turn, told me that he had joined the Army as a Sepoy, a few months back and currently he is under recruit training. I asked Rameshwer with dismay as to why he joined the Army as a Recruit. Rameshwar told me that he had been advised by a very senior serving army officer that he should not wait for any longer and waste time but straightaway join the Army as recruit.
Subhash Chachaji received me at Bombay Central Railway Station and took straight to his house in Bandra where I stayed with the family for two days only. Then I was taken to New Heaven Engineering Works at Andheri(East) and introduced to a very senior and impressive looking elderly, well dressed in whites, over six feet in height and soft spoken sikh engineer who straightaway provided me a helper's job on a monthly salary of Rs 50/-. Next day, I was introduced to another boy. I was to live in a Kholi that had been taken on rent at Jogeshwari.
Meagre monthly salary of Rs. 50/- was not at all enough to live in Bombay even in those days. It had become very difficult to make both ends meet and meet other daily expenses including medicines, room rent, rations, milk and vegetables. Due to very poor living conditions with increasing tension of factory workload and lack of even minimum inescapable daily diet to survive, I fell ill and was admitted in JJ Hospital. After having stayed in the hospital for nearly one and a half month, doctors recommended that I should not continue to stay in Bombay and that I must go home in order to gain health.
I was back home in Ladori. It was Jun-Jul 1963. Nothing had changed in Ladori and I again started feeling helpless and lonely in the village. Frustration also began to overpower me resulting in a unknown fear of my taking to a wrong route. Resulting, I was, this time, sent to Patiala to my Chhote Chachaji, Ishwer Chander Sharma, who was then serving in the Army as a Religious Teacher. I was sent to Patiala so that I may be able to improve my health.
I came back down to the quarter. Sat on a chair for a while and thought about my friend Harbans and his joining Army as a Sepoy. Within no time, I was at the Recruitment Office without the knowledge of my Chachaji. To my surprise I was only a matriculate candidate among all the aspiring candidates. I was recruited in the Army without any difficulty, as a clerk on 11 November 1963 and reached Bangalore for training.
After recruit training, I was posted to a Military Headquarter in Pune in May 1965. In Jun 1966, I was further posted to HQ Bombay Sub Area, Colaba, Bombay on my own request. In early 1967, I applied for Commission in the Army but very sorry to say, that Brig Harpal Singh, the then Sub Area Commander, rejected my candidature right away, by saying that he did not like clerks to become commissioned officers in the army and that I should first change my trade from clerk to a general duty sepoy, then he would be the first person to help me grant commission in the Army! What a misuse of an authority, the first recommending authority, which was not at all a final one! I missed the chance.
In 1973 to 1975, I was posted in a Military Headquarters at Pathankot. One day morning, at about 9.30 AM, I was busy with some official work. My cap was hanging on the wall behind me. I heard someone asking me about the office of a senior officer serving in our Headquarters. I looked up. I was stunned, numb, cold and yet perspiring. Capt Harbans Singh Katoch was standing tall before me! For a few seconds, I could not utter a words.
I could not sleep properly for a few nights after having seen my friend. From next day onward, I started preparations, day and night, for applying for SL Commission. Now that I had completed my 10 years active in the Army, I was eligible for applying for SL Commission in the Army. Appropriate time for submission of applications for SL Commission came and I applied for two different posts, one for Record Officer and another application for the post of Quartermaster. After recommendations by the Sub Area Commander, the applications were sent forward to a high headquarter at Nagrota near Udhampur.
A few weeks later, all the recommended candidates were present at Nagrota for final recommendations prior to Service selection board. In the morning at 9 O' Clock, interview began. My turn came at 11 AM. First I was called for the post of Record Officer. Lt Gen Khushwant Singh was the interviewing officer. When I settled down in front of him on the chair, I was asked a question whether I had ever served in Record Office. Being staff duty clerk, they are not posted in Record Office but they are doing the same official work in the Formation Headquarters, was the reply given by me.
Though there was one more chance for me to apply for SL Commission, I felt disheartened and made up my mind for applying for posting abroad. The only condition was that one who applies for commission in the army, cannot simultaneously apply for posting abroad. I finally chose to apply for posting abroad. I am not going into the details as to how I was finally selected for posting abroad which I have already mentioned somewhere in my earlier write-ups, I was posted to High Commission of India, Canberra (Australia). Stayed there with family for three years and posted back to a Military Headquarters at Jalandhar in 1983.
It was my last and the only chance for applying for SL Commission. I worked hard day and night, went to SSB Allahabad after having recommended by the intermediary authorities and performed outstandingly well as opined by the instructors and my batch colleagues there, and most importantly, by my own consciousness, later, at home, it was all shocking surprise. I could not make it this time either! A sweet dream collapsed and I also lost my school friend in the oblivion!
Thursday, 19 August 2021
Kaushalya Devi was married off to Puran Chand, elder son of Pandit Mallhu Ram of Ladori. Puran Chand and Kaushalya Devi have four sons and a daughter. Daughter Urmila is married to Om Prakash Shastri of village Indpur. Writer, the eldest, Raman, Radha and Arun are the four sons who are well settled and living with their respective families. Puran Chand left for his heavenly abode in March 1974 while Smt. Kaushalya Devi followed him on 27 July, 2000.
After the demise of Head Pujari, Kishan Dyal became next Pujari and custodian of Mandir Kalyanrai and property attached to it. Despite best efforts made by Manjhol family of Ladori in general and Kaushalya Devi in particular, Kishan Dyal never agreed for marriage. He had been leading a lonely life all these years. His behavior and general conduct, though not bad, had made him a laughing stock in and around the village. The major problem with him had always been that he did not trust anyone on the earth and was not interested to listen to any good advice or suggestion from any well wishers like his sister and her sons.
A still more clever immediate neighbourer of Kishan Dyal, Pancham Chand, who was then in a government service, far away in Old Himachal Pradesh, has also grabbed and occupied vast stretch of Khadyater land of Mandir Kalyanrai through a well planned and executed conspiracy with the connivance of local revenue officials showing himself as its Kashtkar taking advantage of the mental weakness of Kishan Dyal. It may be pointed out that Khadyater land cannot be leased \out to a Kashtkar {who actually cultivate the land} for cultivation and that too to a government employee who, during all his service period lived away from Khajjan as far as District Chamba.
The writer's younger brother Arun has been looking after Kishan Dyal for the last many years and supporting him both financially and morally. He had also constructed a house for him many years before his death. Arun's efforts to retrieve the mandir land from unauthorized occupation of Mujaras as well as from Pancham Chand, have yielded results to some extent but some cases still require constant follow up. I personally appeal to the respected senior residents of Khajjan, revenue officials, member Panchyayat to co-operate with Arun Kumar Sharma and help him save Mandir Kalyanrai from likely ruins.
Wednesday, 18 August 2021
A small cluster of houses of Baadies is situated at Jharnuin adjoining Zaildare-da-Bagh between Upla Maira and Chikla Maira amidst green scenic landscape, overlooking Chhoti Dhar, on the bank of seasonal nullah, which is named after this hamlet as Baadian-da-Naal. People of these baadies, as they say, originally belonged to a gipsy tribe whose main occupation was tree felling, sawing and blacksmithing. It is said that they came to this part of the then East Punjab from Chittorgarh area of Rajasthan.
After the demise of Maharana Pratap, a fistful of his lashkar and immediate followers, who were left behind, migrated to other parts of the country in search of livelihood. One such large family reached Ladori. On their arrival in the village, they had nothing to do but to carry on their ancestral work of tree felling. But due to lack of sufficient work, it became extremely difficult for them to make both ends meet and they had to live in utterly poor conditions in thatched dwellings for years, working for others.
With the passage of time, they were taken to cultivation on agricultural land on contract basis and rearing of domestic animals became their mainstay. A few of them became owners of some agricultural land under an act of the government while few others acquired it through deeds. Now they live in good houses fitted with water and electricity supply. Most of them also own various types of basic consumer household items like radio, television, mixer-grinders, refrigerator, fans, furniture, LCD and various other decorative household items. Most of them also own two wheelers. Children go to school while womenfolk work in fields.
Milkhi Ram Baadi, an energetic, ambitious and confident school drop-out guy of this community was elected Sarpanch of Ladori Khas Panchayat in early sixties. Though out of work now, he is still going strong and never misses an opportunity to play petty politics.
Sunday, 15 August 2021
GADDI AND THE BHALLBHA MITTAR
Gaddi, a centuries old gipsy community of Himachal Pradesh and Bakarwals of J&K State, those who used to live in cold to extreme cold upper reaches of snow capped mountainous regions of these states, from the times immemorial, used to rear goats and sheep for wool, milk and meat. These people used to come downhill from upper Himachal, trekking long distances of mountainous terrain, during onset of winters along with their belongings and herds.
These tribes, many of them consisting of number of typically fashioned males, wearing gold ear rings, heavy silver necklace, bracelets and rings with multicolor stone beads worn around the neck, singing, dancing, clapping and laughing, these heavily ornamented and humorous natured people create an all round atmosphere of jubilee and rejoicing. Sometimes even with distorted features and being doubly overweight, who always kept young and the old of the village, engaged in superfluous conversations, amused them with their jocularly body language and repetitive titbits.
O' yeah, Bhallbha Mittar was one among such jolly good old fellows, of huge built and bushy long hair all over his body, who had been to our village Ladori for more than 40 years. He was very popular especially among the local children, particularly the writer!. He was very well known for eating 16 Kukarian-de-Tikkar (A thick and heavy yellow cornflower hand made roti) at a stretch with Raab (residue, look alike darkest brown raw honey, that is generally used for preparing tambaku for Hooka smoking).
Old women of these tribal people wore beautiful, finally crafted ornaments which are no longer in fashion like several kilograms of heavy solid silver necklace, armlets, bracelets and anklets, gold nose rings held with the support of fine gold chains going round the right ear. Wearing of, at a time, number of multi colored stone beads of different sizes and shapes, was a must for a well dressed gaddi woman in her traditional attire.
One such woman, Sundroo, a tall, slim, gori, jolly good and matured gaddi woman was still more famous, known for her beauty, dressing sense, bright and loud makeup and for singing pahadi folk songs. Her meticulously carved out Laung (Nose Pin) of pure gold, studded with precious red coral always attracted the attention of by-passers with its lashkara!
Since government has had been trying hard for the last many decades in order to uplift them and other tribes like Bakarwals, most of the youth and their families have given up old gipsy way of life and rearing of sheep and other animal stock. In order to join the main stream, they have come down to plains and taken to education and joining mainstream.
Friday, 30 July 2021
Ever since District Kangra was annexed to Himachal Pradesh in mid seventies, it had always been a place of Government neglect and apathy for quite sometime. Now, a Senior Secondary School, Government Primary School, Civil Dispensary with MBBS Doctor, Fair Price Shop, Bank of Patiala Extension Counter, Gram Panchayat with village Pradhan, Sub Post Office and Government run Sewing Centre for women are some of the public institutions in the village. Smalltime agriculture, collection of wild fodder and firewood from the nearby woods of Choti Dhar direct behind the village and rearing of milch animals had been the main preoccupation of the old timers.
Now things have undergone great change due to revolutionary enlightenment spread out by the television, mobile phone, internet and social media wiping out hurdles of long distances of rugged mountainous terrains between the masses and helped bring them close, on the touch of fingertips. Pucca roads connecting with the rest of Himachal Pradesh.
Influence of western culture trickling down to village levels, has further kindled the quest for better living standards with all required amenities such as mobile phone, LCD, LED television, computers, lap tops, cooking gas, washing machines, costly and standard kitchen gadgets, uninterrupted super water and electricity connections and fixtures in the house, hygienic and beautiful washrooms, interconnected paved pathways up to door steps, well-knit drainage system and overhead street lights, and well built beautiful designer cozy homes, furnished with luxury furniture and drapes, with more than three bed rooms or in some cases four to six rooms in a double story pucca houses!
Saturday, 10 July 2021
LADORI AND THE JABBAR KHAD.
Ladori, a small Himachali Village in Tehsil Nurpur, Distt. Kangra, is situated at approximately tweleve kilometers north of historic town of Nurpur in the foot hills of magestic dhauladhar mountain ranges, which are popularly known as Hathi Dhar and Choti Dhar. While these mountain ranges are scantly but densely covered with khair, scented pine and fragrant cedar forests in the north, a skyline of Himalayan snow capped peaks overlooks the village from far northeastern horizon.
The all weather sweet water Jabbar Khad flows in a zig zag manner on a rocky bed through down deep narrow gorge created by its seasonal gushing currents over the centuries gone by. This khad can be considered as the lifeline of the villages and hamlets situated on its banks.
At Village Ladori, the Khad flows at a stone's throw distance deep downwards from the human habitat. One has to trek up and down carefully on the stony track to and from the rivulet. While passing through the village, one can see that the khad has fondly been nicknamed as Upli Jabbar and the Chikly Jabbar. Upli Jabbar is generally frequented by Pathanias (Mians) as it falls within their easy reach on their side of the village.
During rainy season, Jabbar is swollen to its fullest capacity and bring along with it whatever came its way, be it logs, uprooted trees or for that matter hapless cattle caught unaware in the current. Even being a hilly rivulet, Jabbar Khad has not ever caused much damage to the villages and clusters falling within its reach.
'Atte-da-Bagh', with rare varieties of regional desi mango trees, ponds of crystal clear and refreshing cool water, cascading waterfalls, green foliage all around, playing and chirping of various species of birds, biggest and the smallest being the Mor (Peacock) and Pidu, smallest of the birds found in Ladori, affectionally called in pahari dialect as Piddu, Pida or Pidi, respectively, colorful smartian butterflies playing on wild flowers, a solitary peacock crying at the far end of the Khadyater Meadow, goats and sheep along with their siblings enjoying grazing on ever green thorny 'garna' and 'maliyar' bush leaves.
'Shiv Doala' under an old huge Arjuna Tree, hanuman mandirs and number of huge and centuries old Barr, Plakh and Peepal trees grace the clean and ever fresh environment here.
Chikly Jabbar is mainly visited by both men and women folks of brahmins and others. The eye catching scenery, water falls, springs of warm water, built up bath rooms, sprawling ancient mango groves, lush green hillocks all around, village cattle herds resting under the cool shade of mango trees while village shepherd trying to tune up his improvised flute (Gangojoo), groups of monkeys fly jumping from one tree to another, intermittent barking noise of Kakkar{wild dear}, far away, up in Charoa, a popular place where few local families live from time immemorial, amidst huge mango groves.
In Chikly Jabbar, clean, cool and fresh breeze attract people of all ages to this panoramic spot. Women and children from the other side of Chikly Jabbar, a cluster of hamlets situated straight up on a high ground from the Jabbar Khad at Charoa stretching towards Meharka, another small hamlet of locals, also used to come down here for taking drinking water for themselves and their cattle.